Introduction

Hi there! My name is Angie, and I was in an emotionally abusive marriage. To be more specific, I suffered narcissistic abuse.  I was married for almost five years to my abuser, and shame kept me there until the discard. I am now sharing my story because the story needs to be told to raise awareness on the topic of … Continue reading Introduction

CONGRATULATIONS, YOU HAVE BEEN DISCARDED BY THE NARCISSIST! By Angie Beavers, CSMC

So, you have been discarded. How does it feel?  Awful, I know.  Been there done that. Being discarded is a victory. Why is that?  Let's take a look. The daily insanity has been reduced dramatically or completely stopped.  You should take this time to celebrate the silence. In these moments, you may find clarity and … Continue reading CONGRATULATIONS, YOU HAVE BEEN DISCARDED BY THE NARCISSIST! By Angie Beavers, CSMC

My Conscience is Clear by Angie Beavers, CSMC

People often wonder about my happy demeanor and positive attitude after enduring almost five years in an abusive marriage and another 7 years of continued financial abuse post-divorce.  My answer...I had to dig deep and my conscience is clear. The abuse I suffered in my marriage was certainly debilitating.  It was a high stress and … Continue reading My Conscience is Clear by Angie Beavers, CSMC

Acknowledging the Wins: It’s Monday, and I am Winning!

Acknowledging the wins is in the same vein as positive self-affirmations and reinforcements. It is a great self-esteem builder and reinforces the power of positive thinking. I used acknowledgements and affirmations frequently to keep me from swimming in negativity after suffering narc abuse. A win can be anything. It can be going "no contact" with … Continue reading Acknowledging the Wins: It’s Monday, and I am Winning!